Here comes the flatmate
Michelle wrote to me about a time that she fell into her flatmates bed, while she had a boyfriend....
"I ended up in a flatmates' bed while living with my boyfriend of almost two years. So I kicked out my boyfriend and started going out with my flatmate. We have now been together for almost 6 years and are getting married next year in May!"
I'm sure that this isn't the first relationship that's ended because someone slept with a roomie, but it's maybe the first I've heard about that's leading to a marriage. Has this happened to you or someone you know? Let me know!
COMMENT:
AUTHOR: Ryan
EMAIL: fast_n_furious1980@msn.com
DATE: 2006-05-02 16:41:28
S L U T ! ! !........ its skanks like you that make guys never want to get into a relationship or marriage for that reason. I hope natural justice catches up with you.
Comments
DATE: 2006-05-03 15:08:15
Meow...
Posted by: Mel | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-03 16:20:10
and obviously ryan doesnt understand human behaviour. u live together, u share together, ultimatley u start caring about one another. doesn't always end up in a relationship or bed, but i think good on ya, if it has worked for you i wouldn't take critism from anyone else
Posted by: Charmain | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-03 22:53:40
I agree completely with Ryan.
Someone needs to chlorinate your genetic gene pool.
Posted by: Sam | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-06 18:46:58
Hey, I never said I was proud of what I did. I felt so guilty for hurting my ex-boyfriend I used to cry myself to sleep every night for at least the following year. My ex was actually a really nice guy... he just had an excessive drug problem and it began to cause some major problems in our relationship. That's about the time the new guy moved in...Don't worry Ryan...natural justice did catch up with me in a strange twist...but that's another story...
Posted by: Michelle | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-07 06:17:13
ewwo. bless
Posted by: lizzie | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-07 15:54:08
jeez- let her live her life- the guy had a drug problem; it's definitely a good thing she booted him! if she were you're friend and she asked you about what you thought she should do about the situation...what would you have told her? don't say "talk with him about it"...that's crap. nerf the druggie
Posted by: Steve | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-08 02:17:33
i agree with steve, if he had drug problems, loose him, and the sex was a bonus, so really ure win win.
Posted by: He | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-09 19:03:45
fair play to u the only problem i can see with this is that you kicked out your boyfriend. i really think u should have kept him going and had yourself a good spit roasting cos is great fun
Posted by: ian | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-10 16:56:46
wacki i say
but if its true love then its alright by me
the whole bed thing bothers me a little...but oh well
your life, you live it :)
Posted by: catch | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-11 06:07:49
I don't mind the fact that you got rid of him, but you could have at least gotten rid of him PRIOR to giving yourself to your roomate. Besides, people with drug problems aren't always bad. They just get caught up in bad things and need help getting out of them.
Congradulations on the engagement though.
Posted by: Scott | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-11 06:50:56
Don't listen to Ryan.
A.) He's not perfect. I'm sure he's done something he's not proud of.
B.) He's probably never been in a serious relationship or in one with problems.
Live your life how you want to live. Good luck to ya, Michelle. And congratulations on getting married!
Posted by: Janay | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-12 09:36:17
Michelle is definately a slut and a half... doesnt she know the old addage, "Never dip your pen in the company ink." i doubt she heard that one... and as for the ex-boyfriend having a drug problem? yes i'm glad that she left him... but leave him FIRST... THEN seek other companionship... and for that matter NOT in the same household... a flatmate is nothing more than a business arrangement... and should be seen as such... She also stated that she would cry at night after leaving him... wouldn't that be kinda hard with her flatmate's member in her mouth? yeah i can hear it now... "OMG, i'm so sad... muffle muffle, choke, muffle, choke, i dont know how i'll go on... choke choke".. bitch... lol
Posted by: Reverend Vincent | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-12 14:22:22
hey, reverend vincent.... how do you know there weren't previous feelings towards the new roomie, i mean i know in the past when i had a boyfriend i had feelings for another guy but i didn't even know it until spending a night at a concert with the "other guy" (it was a christianrock concert, nothing happened i was there with my church) so i ended up breaking up with my bf...
"She also stated that she would cry at night after leaving him… wouldn’t that be kinda hard with her flatmate’s member in her mouth? yeah i can hear it now… “OMG, i’m so sad… muffle muffle, choke, muffle, choke, i dont know how i’ll go on… choke choke”.. bitch… lol"
how do you know the new roomie (who she's obviously in love with and its a strong relationship, not just for sex, because they've been together for 6 years and they are GETTING MARRIED!!!) wasn't comforting her while she cried at night. and by comforting i dont mean sticking his member in her mouth. its guys like that, that make girls break up with them.
as for you michelle, good luck i hope you have a happy life with your fiance (sp.?). and as for ending it with the druggie, more power to ya!
(hehe.... i always have something to say, according to my mom and my english 1 teacher who says i should join the debate team.... yes, im only a freshman in highschool)
Posted by: Caitlin | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-15 07:20:16
It's actually getting humorous reading comments by people who are obviously broken. They lash out at people and attempt to judge them on a single dimension... Trolls exhist everywhere I suppose.
Anyhow, I hope you can stay happy Michelle, congrats!
Posted by: Lissa | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-15 19:53:54
Ah Hell! We can't go through life living for everyone else.
While it would be nice to never hurt someone, sometimes things just happen; We learn to live with the consequences and move on ...
If this marriage is working, then it was for the best ... There's no telling at this point whether or not the old b/f relationship would.
So to everyone out there I say "Do what you have to do in your heart". It might not always be right but either way, "going for it" or not, you're always going to end up regretting it. You might as well take a chance!
TIAL
Posted by: Twice In A Lifetime | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-18 13:49:43
interesting to see what the girls reactions would be like if it was a guy fucking around on a chick.
Posted by: scott | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-19 10:16:21
Good Point Scott!
Posted by: Tash | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
DATE: 2006-05-22 01:13:16
Things like that happen. It's called life. We all make mistakes. Give her a break.
Good luck on toue marriage, by the way! :)
Posted by: Megga | July 10, 2006 08:44 AM
If the survey is valid, wonderful news!
Personally I love doing the garden in the nude. After all, Adam and Eve were also gardeners! My neighbours haven't raised any objections.
Posted by: alan | October 10, 2006 10:09 PM